It was the middle of July in 1913 in a small mining town
in western Pennsylvania that Sophie and John Churan welcomed their first child
into the world. Times were different
then. He wasn’t born in a hospital
surrounded by scores of doctors and nurses with equipment buzzing
everywhere. Little Andrew was never
really sure what his actual birth date was but celebrated July 13 as his
birthday because that was when his birth was recorded at the county offices.
The world had yet to see its first global conflict. Telephones
were a luxury as less than 10% of homes had one and the first coast to coast
telephone call wouldn’t happen for two more years. There were less than one million cars in the
United States. If you could afford one, it would cost $800. Trains were the
ideal mode of long distance transportation as the first commercial scheduled
flight wouldn’t happen for six months. The Titanic sank the year before but there
was no CNN to let everyone know. The newspaper, almost dead today, was the best
means of circulating the news. They were available daily with special editions
available when news broke.
The first public radio broadcast had only occurred three
years earlier and it would be another decade before radios became a popular
household item. Movies were fifteen
minutes long and Charlie Chaplin was going to sign his first movie contract the
same month. The thought of a television would have been laughable.
There were no large grocery stores. A loaf of bread was a
nickel, a pound of steak was twenty cents, a gallon of milk was thirty five
cents and penny candy actually did cost a penny. That fifteen minute movie would cost you
seven cents. The average wage was $0.22
per hour and most took home between $400 and $600 per year.
In 1913, the life expectancy for a man was 50 and for a
woman it was 55. In the last 100 years, that expectance has increased by 50% to
75 for men and 81 for women. In many
ways our lives have gotten easier and our health system much better which has
allowed us to live much longer than our ancestors.
The world in 1913 seems more than 100 years ago in many
ways.
My dad lived a life that was simple in nature but he
tended to enjoy whatever it was he was a part of. Family was all important to
him throughout his life as I remember relatives always being over to our home.
That probably came from the close relationship he had with his mother and
younger sister, Margaret as his father died when he was five.
He was as different as can be when compared to my
childhood. I was sheltered from everything as my mother felt that I would die
for sure if I was exposed to just about anything. My kids still love to make
fun of me whenever we talk about the fact that I had to learn how to ride a
bicycle at the age of 13. In comparison, my dad had to move away from home and
work on a farm to help support the family at the age of 14.
At 14, he was a big as he was ever going to get. He was
strong as an ox and earned every dime he was paid. Mature beyond his years, one of his favorite
stories was when some of the men he worked with put him up to fight one of the
other men that worked on the farm as a cheap form of entertainment. Dollars were wagered on both the boy and the
man. They were put inside of a box car and only the winner was to walk out of
the car. There was straw and cow manure
everywhere but that didn’t slow either of them down. He gave the twenty
something man everything he could handle and walked out the victor. He was
tough but five years later he met his match and she was anything but the rough
and tumble man my father had become.
When he met my mother, Julia Pregon in 1932, his world
changed. From the very first moment he saw her, he knew she would be his
wife. For 41 years, they loved, laughed,
fought, cried and worked together. My
mother was just as ambitious as my father and smart well beyond her ten years
of education. Individually they were strong, but together they were special. We
all hope to have a life with another person as they did. When he lost her, he
lost a bit of himself, I’m not sure he was ever the same.
He lived through the depression and learned the value of a
dollar at a young age, something he never forgot. Always hard working, he worked full time
until he was 70. He was never a rich man, but one that enjoyed the simple
things like reading a book, playing cards or just taking a walk.
His greatest thrill in life aside from yours truly was
when Neil Armstrong set foot on the moon.
His love of science fiction was with him for decades. In 1969 when we saw “2001: A Space Odyssey”
it as if all of those years of reading paperbacks all came true. Not sure why I have held on to them, but I
still have hundreds of science fiction books that my dad read from the 1940’s on.
I guess it is just my way of hanging on
to him a bit.
He lived to be 77 and he saw the world change around him
unlike any generation before. The only
thing he really missed was the birth of a grandchild as died three months
before Justin’s birth. He had waited so long to hold his son and just couldn’t
hold on long enough to hold a grandchild. Hopefully, both he and my mother have enjoyed
seeing the boys grow and become the wonderful men that they are. He made a real difference in my life. I can
only hope I will make the same in theirs.
Beautiful story. You are lucky to have such wonderful memories.
ReplyDeleteI remember both of your parents very fondly.
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